Peonies

It has been a difficult week.  I am still under the weather- battling a virus from hell that just won't relent.  There are no sick days when you are a stay-at-home-mom, which makes it hard to make a full recovery.  I have been leaning heavily on help from our babysitter, and my husband, as there are hours of the day that all I can do is lay in bed while my head throbs and my body aches.  I just want to feel better- take my little guy to the park, enjoy a trip the the farmers market tomorrow, sit outside in the sun. 
On a very short, very slow walk around the neighborhood yesterday, I noticed the peonies were in full bloom, and luckily, I had my camera tucked in the stroller.  For a brief moment, their delicate beauty brought a smile to my face. 
My family comes into town tonight, and while I would love to feel 100% for their visit, I am taking comfort in the fact that even if I don't, they will be here to nurture me back to health.  Even when you are a mother yourself, there is nothing like having your own mom nurse you back to health.  Wishing you a happy, healthy weekend, with abundant beauty.
(no- I didn't steal these from a neighbors yard, although I was tempted to!)

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Essential Oils and Aromatherapy

I have been working with a health and nutrition coach for the last six months.  She is extraordinary, and has been helping me in so many areas: nutrition, self-care, wellness and goal-setting, to name just a few.  I began working with her in the hopes of expanding my nutritional/ cooking knowledge to incorporate more whole foods cooking.  We are healthy eaters, but there is always room to grow.  She helped me during difficult nutritional times- breastfeeding, and pregnancy, to be specific.  My body has been through a lot these past few years, and it needs to be treated right!  She has also helped me lessen the pressure I tend to inflict on myself, and she was instrumental in helping me realize that with this new baby, I need to give myself a real maternity leave from work!

Besides all of that, one of the best new tools in my healthy living toolbox is a growing knowledge of essential oils.  I thought I would share with you a bit about this subject- how I use my essential oils, and what purpose they serve in our lives.  I'm sure there is a ton of information on this subject available in books and on the web- keep in mind this is just what works for our family!

According to Young Living (the company I use for my oils) "essential oils, known as nature’s living energy, are the natural, aromatic volatile liquids found in shrubs, flowers, trees, roots, bushes, and seeds. The distinctive components in essential oils defend plants against insects, environmental conditions, and disease. They are also vital for a plant to grow, live, evolve, and adapt to its surroundings. Essential oils are extracted from aromatic plant sources via steam distillation, and are highly concentrated and far more potent than dry herbs."

I find it amazing that essential oils have been around since the ancient times, with numerous references in the Bible (frankincense and myrrh, anyone!?), and yet, they are thought of today as outside the realm of traditional medicine.  In fact, up until the 1930's, essential oils were used as medicine. Now, they are used for aromatherapy, message, personal care, health and wellness, nutritional supplements, and much more.

There are hundreds of essential oils, each with distinct properties.  Here are my go-to essential oils, and their uses:
*Lavender: relaxation, calming, sleep-aid
*Eucalyptus: promotes respiratory wellness
*Peppermint: promotes digestive health, stimulates the mind, cools fevers
*Lemon: anti-bacterial properties, anti-septic, boosts immunity
*Thieves (a blend of clove, cinnamon, lemon, rosemary and eucalyptus): boosts immunity, used during the plague by tomb raiders to avoid getting the plague, even the government at the time wanted to know the 'thieves' secret!

Application:
You can use your essential oils in a variety of ways- simply inhaling the scent is often very effective, as is applying it directly to the skin (for stronger oils, use a carrier oil, such as unscented coconut oil or sesame oil).  For example, when I had a cough this past week, I applied eucalyptus oil directly to my chest, and inhaled the scent to help clear my passages.  For an even more relaxing, effective experience, apply a hot water bottle to the area where you put the oil- the effect is heavenly!

You can also:
-Put the essential oil in a spray bottle with water, and use as an air freshener- ten drops of oil to a full bottle of water.  I do this with Thieves to rid the house of bacteria, especially after one of us has an illness.
-Use for cleaning- a few drops of essential oil in baking soda can work wonders on your bathtub and tile...as an added bonus, you get the benefit of the wonderful, healing smell.  Lemon, and Thieves both have anti-bacterial properties, great for cleaning.
-Use a diffuser to circulate the oil in the air.  Lavender is a great one to use in your baby's room to promote restful sleep.
-Add a few drops to your water.  Lemon and peppermint are great for this.

Finally, keep in mind that essential oils have been used for decades to treat various infant issues- colic, teething, diaper rash, cradle cap, etc.  If you are interested in using essential oils with your baby or children, check out Aromatherapy for the Healthy Child by Valerie Ann Worwood.  Another great book is Aromatherapy A-Z by Connie and Alan Higley.  Look up what is ailing you, and this book will tell you what essential oil to use, and how.

We are just starting on this journey, and there is so much more to learn, but we now use essential oils every day, in a variety of ways.  Maybe you'll want to give it a try, too!

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The Best Laid Plans

I had high hopes for the weekend- farmers market, plant sale, block party- instead, I found myself holed up in our dark bedroom, fighting off a nasty virus.  Cough, sore throat, chills, headache, aches and pains- you know, the works.  It has been making its way around the family for a few weeks now, starting with my husband, who often gets run-down when he travels abroad.  It briefly landed with the little one, and just when I started thinking I had escaped, I was hit hard.
I managed to pull myself out of bed for an hour on Sunday to run to the Southside Community Land Trust's annual plant sale, where I stocked up on herbs, which are the only things that seem to grow well in our shady backyard.  SCLT is an amazing organization, and I always love visiting their City Farm- an incredibly productive farm (with chickens!) in the middle of Providence!
Yesterday, feeling a bit better, I planted my herb pots.  I am going pretty light with the planting this year, because we have a bit of a 'garden pest' problem.  That would be Vijay- who believes that my pots are there solely for his amusement!  He loves nothing more than to use his digger and dump truck to transfer dirt from one pot to another.
He has already 'transplanted' my spring flowers, so I am not even going to bother replanting my pots for the summer.  Nope- herbs only this year- in small pots, set up high, out of the reach of little hands.
Although I have admit, I don't really mind.  I love seeing him dig in the dirt, and we wile away hours in the backyard, which is just how I dreamed it would be when we put in the deck and plantings.  It is so green and lush back there, our own little oasis.
And it is amazing to watch the innate curiosity of children when it comes to the natural world.  Vijay loves flowers, and he has learned to mimic me, leaning over to breath in their scent.  When we are at the park, we often pick the clover and dandelions, making little bouquets.  The only problem is he hasn't learned the difference between picking wild flowers and weeds, and picking my planted flowers.  But it's hard to get upset when he eagerly brings me a little bouquet of flowers, picked from my pots.  I just smile and thank him, and figure...the wonderful thing about gardens- there is always next year!

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Spring Weekend

I am working on some amazing articles right now, and I couldn't be more thrilled.  Here is a little peek at a photo shoot I did this week.  Is there anything more 'springy' than baby lambs?  I'll be continuing the celebration of this gorgeous season by stopping by the first outdoor farmers market tomorrow, as well as this amazing rare and unusual plant sale!  Do you have any fun plans this weekend?

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Photography Etiquette

I received a comment asking about my photography etiquette, as it related to my Brimfield pictures, and I thought it was a great topic for conversation.  I certainly had the same questions when I first started snapping away: "Did you ask permission to take photos of the goods or did you just do it? I am always so tempted to photograph things I see at flea markets, etc., but am always too scared to get my camera out!  You always have great shop photos and I've been curious about your technique!"  Here are my thoughts on the subject...
(above picture from Tulu, a shop in Istanbul)
When I first started playing around with photography, I would stop into the shops that I already frequented, and ask the owners if I could take pictures to practice my skills.  They were always more than happy to allow me free range, and I always felt comfortable asking because these were people I already knew.  
When I became a bit more confident with my skills, I began to photograph shops during my travels, and I always, always asked someone in the store if they would mind me taking pictures before I began shooting.  Often, they would ask me what the pictures are for, and I would tell them I had a blog, and most likely, would be posting a few pictures there, with a link to their website.  Most shop owners are excited by the prospect of 'free press.'  I eventually had little Moo cards made with my name, and website, so that I could hand them out to shop owners.  This seems to add a bit of legitimacy to the whole "I have a blog" thing.  I still use this same technique when I photograph stores- and it seems to work well.  I would suggest asking first, before you just start clicking away- it is the polite thing to do, and makes everyone feel comfortable.
(Joanne Rossman- a favorite store of mine!)
I pretty much use the same approach at flea markets, and art/craft markets.  While I was writing my book, I definitely learned the hard way how fussy vendors, and especially artists, can be about having their work/ displays photographed.  I ran into some artists who actually refused to let me take pictures of their work- even once I explained it was for a book.  I believe this is due to fear of plagiarism, and having their work portrayed in a way they might not be comfortable with.  Often, artists and vendors would ask to see the images before they were included in the book- fair enough.  I became pretty immune to this- but at one particular art event, the artists were so rude when they saw my camera hanging around my neck that I left the event and didn't even think of including it in my book.  I figure it's their loss, and I have learned to brush off that sort of treatment.  Every single image in my book was okay-ed by the artist- a lot of work, but worth it in terms of protecting myself from their potential wrath!  Again- always ask before shooting- better to be safe than sorry, and it makes you seem like less of a lurker!  The only exception to this rule is farmers markets- I have yet to run into a farmer who objects to their tomatoes and peaches being photographed!  Although they are often curious why I am so intense about photographing produce.  The only other exception is at a flea market that is super busy- if the venue is large, and the vendors are super busy helping the crowds, I might snap a few shots without asking.  This is often the case at Brimfield.  When it is super busy, I take my chances.
(Bowerbird- a great shop in Peterborough, NH)
A final thought- and this applies more to travel photography.  When traveling overseas, it is tempting to want to photograph the people.  I felt this way especially during my recent travels to India, Africa, and the Caribbean.  It can be difficult to ask every single person who catches your eye, if you can take their picture, but it really is the respectful thing to do.  I can't say I always ask- I was pretty snap happy in India, and I definitely got in trouble for it sometimes (the older generations seemed especially offended by having their pictures taken, and the younger generations often wanted a little compensation for cooperating!), but I tried my best.  Think how you would feel if a visitor showed up in your town and started photographing you as you walked down the street with your child, or shopped at the market for your groceries.  It would probably feel pretty invasive.  However, if they explained they were visiting, and you caught their eye, would you mind having your picture taken- you might feel flattered and agree.  Either way, the choice would be yours.  The same respect should be given when you are the one taking the shots.

Whew...guess I had a lot to say about the subject...but I hope you find this helpful, and that it gives you the confidence to take your camera along wherever you go, and ask away.  I might occasionally feel shy about asking, but never, ever shy enough to miss a good shot!

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