Birthday Bash, Round Two

Last year, we had the bash to end all bashes.  I think it's safe to say we outdid ourselves this year.  A firetruck, two bands, full Indian food buffet, mini-cupcakes and over one hundred guests because...well, you know....you only turn two once!
The theme was trucks...of course.  So I printed out a little truck banner, and made toppers for the mini-cupcakes.  We had a hard time keeping the table together as little Vijay desperately wanted to pull down the banner and carry it around with him.  It now hangs above his crib, leading to sweet dreams of bulldozers, dump trucks and diggers!
We kinda view this party as a chance to see all of our friends and family- it's more a party for the whole family, not just Vijay.  That means there was a fun mix of ages- college kids, Vijay's little friends, colleagues and our family friends.  But that didn't mean everyone, no matter what their age, didn't enjoy groovin' to the Rock-a-Baby band, and the Brown's Tones (Brown University's women's a Capella group).
Totally over-the-top?  Absolutely.  But so much fun, and definitely worth it!  And all I can say is...thank goodness we beat the storm!
*The best present of all?  My brother, Johnny (that handsome guy there with his darling girlfriend Molly) was able to come to the party.  He's in the Naval Special Forces and just got back from Afghanistan.  We hadn't seen him in over six months...now that's what a call the perfect present!

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Two

My sweetest boy...today you turn two.  You have boundless energy, and an insatiable curiosity for life.  You *love* trucks and adore your baby brother, always putting your cars, trains and trucks in his little curled up fists, wanting him to play with you.  I hope you will be the best of friends.  On your best days, you run me ragged with your continuous play and silly laugh.  On your more challenging days, you run me ragged with your new-found stubbornness and overuse of the word 'no.'  Yet you have taught me what it means to love unconditionally, what it means to venture into the world with my heart outside of my body.  Is this what it means to be a mother? Exhausted with both the joy and challenge of it all?  Always feeling as though when we are apart, a vital piece of me is missing?  When I first heard you call me 'mama' my heart melted...now, hardly a minute goes by without you calling for me to play, or make you a snack, or answer your endless questions.  Still, my heart warms hearing you call for me.
Sometimes I see mother's walking around town with their tall, gangly teenage sons and I think...someday, that will be you and me, little man.  That always brings me back to the moment, reminds me to enjoy you every day.  Your sweetness, your tantrums, your independence, your dependency.  I love it all.  Happy birthday Vijay.

Loving you as always,
Mama

(and for those of you wondering...finally, here's that sweet little baby of mine, almost three months old now!  i now understand why the second child never has any baby pictures of themselves...their mama's are too wiped out from chasing around the first!  i'll make a better effort little Vik, I promise.)

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Pumpkin Vase

I am hosting Thanksgiving at my home for the first time this year.  I have never cooked a whole turkey, or attempted any recipes that you would find on a traditional Thanksgiving table.  I would be overwhelmed by the prospect, but since I am only cooking for my immediate family, and my mom, and brother's girlfriend, Molly, will be there to help, I am not too concerned.  I have given the recipes some thought, but I am mostly excited about decorating the table.  This weekend, inspired by a bouquet from the farmers market, and a beautiful stack of pumpkins, I decided to try my hand at making a pumpkin vase.
I love the way it turned out, dark and moody colors against my farmhouse table.  I will most definitely create some version of this for our Thanksgiving table.
It is super easy to do, just carve the top off of your pumpkin and scoop out the insides.  Place a small vase of water in the pumpkin, and insert your bouquet.  Done!  It's that simple!  Now if only pulling together a turkey dinner for 10 was that easy!

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Small Bites

I've been wanting to write this post for awhile, as I often get asked about Vijay's food preferences.  Feeding little ones can be difficult.  There are so many factors to take into consideration: their finickiness, what they can/ can't chew, if you have time to make homemade food in the midst of the madness.  So I thought I offer a few tips, and recipe ideas that work well for us...granted, I am not an expert, there are plenty of nights we order pizza, and my little guy, much to my dismay, knows and loves french fries and chocolate chip cookies (thanks to his fathers sneakiness!).  However, I do my best to strive for a healthy, balanced diet, full of whole foods, fruits, and vegetables.  We try to eat seasonally, which is hard, because Vijay could eat berries for every meal and be happy.  However, we make do in the colder months with the fruit that we froze throughout the summer (lots of berries, and peaches).  We also have a vendor at our winter market that offers grapefruits and oranges from their families Florida farm- not local, but we make that exception.  When I get anxiety-ridden about the fact his diet isn't perfect, I try to remind myself that it's all about doing the best you can, not about being perfect.  And who doesn't love the occasional chocolate chip cookie, warm from the over?
Breakfast: I am a firm believer that breakfast is the most important meal of the day.  Here are a few of Vijay's favorite ways to start his day...
*plain yogurt with fresh fruit, granola and a dash of honey
*smoothie
*whole grain toaster waffle dipped in apple sauce
*eggs and turkey bacon, with half-a-slice of whole wheat toast
*homemade pancakes studded with fresh fruit (or frozen fruit in the winter)
*homemade french toast (great use for that stale loaf of bread you didn't get around to eating!)
*toast with peanut butter and sliced banana
*egg and vegetable omelet
Snacks: After breakfast, we head out for a morning activity; the park, library, children's museum, music class or a playdate.  After about two hours of playing, it is snack time.  Vijay LOVES his snacks, but as long as they are healthy, I don't mind snacking.  Here are a few favorites:
*Japanese rice crackers with hummus
*Thinly slices veggies with hummus
*Apple sauce
*Popcorn
*Sliced fruit
*Apples with almond butter
*Orange, or grapefruit
*Trail mix (I make my own with puffed rice cereal, dried fruit, nuts and pumpkin or sunflower seeds, sometime I throw in chocolate chips for an extra treat)
*Homemade granola bars (or on occasion, Lara bars)
*Homemade muffins (here are two of my favorites: carrot apple and cranberry orange spice)
Lunch: This is Vijay's smallest meal of the day because he is usually still a bit full from his morning snack.  Regardless, it is a good chance to get in a nutritious, sit-down meal before his long afternoon nap.  Usually, lunch consists of leftovers from the previous nights dinner, as well as cut-up fruit and veggies.  When we don't have leftovers, here are some choices:
*Soup (he loves homemade soups: lentil, turkey chilli and black bean are a few of his favorites)
*Veggie burger or turkey burger cut up with ketchup and mustard for dipping
*Amy's mac and cheese
*Rice and beans
*Half of a turkey sandwich
*Sliced chicken sausage
Dinner: Vijay has always been an adventurous eater, so these days, he just eats whatever I cook for dinner.  I don't make him his own special dinner because frankly, who has the time?!  However, I do set aside some small chopped veggies for him before I throw the into our salad.  Dinner is when I try to get in a green vegetable- broccoli, green beans, peas or spinach.
*Indian food: his favorites include dahl (lentil), briyani (rice and meat), and tandoori chicken
*Mexican food: open faced soft tortilla with refried beans, wild rice, shredded chicken, cheese, lettuce and tomatoes, or my famous
*Pasta with veggies, or tomato sauce (very light on the sauce, he doesn't love tomato)
*Soups, stews, and chilli
*Salmon or white fish (either with mustard sauce, teriaki, or breadcrumbs)
*Pad thai
*Wild rice casserole with chicken and broccoli
*Chicken (I cook a whole chicken in the slow cooker- so moist and tender) with mashed potato or sweet potato
(obviously the list goes on, but you get the idea)
So this picture above is what a day in the life of Vijay looks like, in no particular order- 
Top row: granola and yogurt, waffle with apple sauce, grapes
Middle row: sliced apples, lamb briyani, lentil soup
Third row: sliced red pepper, popcorn, trail mix
A few notes:
*You might notice that I use a lot of little ceramic and glass bowls instead of one plate.  There is a method to my madness.  I like small bowls because they help me portion out the perfect amount.  Also, it makes mealtime a bit more fun, since Vijay loves discovering what is in each bowl.  Finally, I have discovered that my little guy is a bit picky about his food mixing, and if he doesn't like something, he wants it off of his tray.  If all of his food were on a plate, it would be tricky to take away the offender, but with bowls, if he tries it and doesn't like it, I simply take the bowl away.  I don't like using plastic, and Vijay has learned (the hard way, by shattering a bowl here and there) not to drop or throw his bowls!

*Finally- a word about fluids.  Vijay drinks mainly water, as well as 2-3 small glasses of organic whole milk per day.  On special occasions, he might get juice- like apple cider when we visit the orchard.  He probably only drinks juice once or twice a month- I just find it to be an unnecessary exposure to sugar.  An exception is made for freshly squeezed juice that I make at home.  He also loves decaffeinated iced tea- like peach, berry and other fruity flavors.  This is a great way to get him to drink more water!

Okay- let's share ideas!  I'd love to hear what you're feeding your little ones!

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New York in a Day

On Saturday, I took the train to New York for the day- that's right, there and back in a day.  I wanted to attend Sibella Court's book signing at Anthropologie.  I greatly admire Sibella, and I have all of her books, which are really more like works of art.  She is such an amazing source of inspiration, and I couldn't wait to meet her.  With Vik strapped to my chest, I spent the day soaking up the beautiful fall weather, and poking into my favorite shops.  Can I take you along as I spend a whirlwind 12 hours in the city...?
After catching the early train, we (by we I mean Vik and I!) spent the morning in Chelsea.  The High Line was bustling, and it was my first time visiting.  Beautiful views, and gorgeous, dappled fall light.
After our walk, we made our way to Anthropologie to hear Sibella talk about her latest book, The Life of a Bowerbird.  More on her gorgeous book later, once I've had a chance to read it cover to cover.  Sibella spent time chatting with everyone who came, and I even slipped her a copy of my book (I know, I know- total fangirl behavior).  She was so down-to-earth, and just super sweet- it was an absolute pleasure listening to her talk, and meeting her in-person. *
 (Sibella had great personal style- her bag and coat were just flung over a chair and it looked like a staged vignette!)
From Chelsea, we hopped in a cab to Union Square where the Greenmarket was in full swing.  Wherever I go, I am always drawn to the local market scene.  I simply can't help it.  The Greenmarket did not disappoint- vibrant produce, gorgeous florals and good eats.
Less than a block away from the market is one of my all-time favorite stores- ABC Carpet & Home.  I love their displays, and luxe goods, and although I rarely ever buy anything, I love to browse.  They have an amazing restaurant as well, and I quickly grabbed a lovely salad and bowl of soup, balancing Vik on my hip while eating at the bar on a tiny stool.  I even managed a diaper change in what had to be the smallest bathroom ever- I felt a bit like a magician, whipping diapers out of thin air, and balancing the poor babe on my knee.  No easy feat, but I felt I earned my city stripes.
After lunch, we took a leisurely walk to SoHo for some shopping, weaving our way through Washington Square Park on the way.  The light was gorgeous, and the air crisp.  I do love fall in New York.
There was a wild street fair going on in SoHo, so we browsed, stopped in a few shops, including Purl, another of my faves, and grabbed a box of sweets at Balthazar Bakery before hopping in a cab back to Penn Station.  We arrived home around 9pm, totally and utterly exhausted, but feeling inspired and alive.  I felt a bit disappointed when I downloaded my pictures- I didn't even come close to capturing the beauty of the day, but I have trouble getting the shots I want when I am wearing Vik.  I look forward to the day when I can freely shoot without having to worry about running after my rogue toddler, or balancing a baby on my chest!  Until that day...these images will have to do.
*When I had my own book launch party, I remember one sweet women came all the way from upstate New York for the event.  She drove with her husband, and the two of them made it a fun road-trip.  I couldn't have been more flattered- this simply doesn't happen in my world.  I don't have a huge readership, or rabid fan following like some blogs.  So this was a big deal- it made my night, quite frankly.  I was so nervous about her having a good time- I introduced her to all of my friends, and asked them to take her under their wing. And then I was swallowed up by the business of greeting and signing.  I kept hoping the event lived up to her expectations.  I'll never know if she had a good time- if the long trip was worth it.  I think about her often, when I get down on myself, I remember that someone made that trip to see me, that they thought I was worth it, that my book was worth it- thinking about that always gives me a boost of confidence. 

Going to see Sibella gave me a new perspective.  I spent three hours on the train with my baby just to see her, and I only was able to talk to her for a few minutes- but it was absolutely worth it.  It was about the experience, and about realizing that she is just as sweet and genuine as she comes across online (as we all know, this often isn't the case).  I love her work even more now that I've had a chance to meet the women behind it all, and every time I read her books I will remember, with sweet fondness, our whirlwind trip to New York, and the kindness with which Sibella showed to everyone who came out to meet her.

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