I'd Still Choose You

The blushing bride
Your wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime event. You choose the one you want to spend your life with, don the white dress, proceed down the aisle and say your "I do's"....
Newly Weds....again!
And then the real fun begins; pick up your underwear, clean your dishes, pull your weight around here, do I have to ask you again?!? You know, the typical everyday life of a happily married couple. But what if you could do it all over again?
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I had that chance a few days ago when Vijay and I fulfilled a two-year dream of celebrating our marriage with a Hindu ceremony. Vijay was raised by a Catholic mother and Hindu father, and his dream, ever since our engagement, has been to have an authentic Hindu ceremony in India.
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So, in a gorgeous temple here in Jaipur, we recommitted ourselves to each other. Although the ceremony was in Hindi, with Vijay translating bits and pieces, I felt that I understood the core message...the promise of a lifetime of love and faithful commitment.
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And so, with my vows, I recommitted myself to my husband, the man I have built a life with over the past two years. As I looked into his eyes, and listened to him repeat his vows, I realized that I am as every bit in love with him as I was the first time around.
Rose petals at our feet
As we were walking away after the ceremony, he leaned in and whispered..."If I had to do it all over again, I would choose you. I will always choose you."
Walking away

susan (December 28, 2009 at 10:21 AM)  

I had no idea that was in the plan...so really beautiful. Your pictures are unbelievable! I feel like I'm there with you.

naturally nina (December 28, 2009 at 10:31 AM)  

oh my goodness, i just got tears in my eyes. those pictures are FANTASTIC!! :) may i share some of them on my blog? you guys are amazing and that is incredible that you got that opportunity.

Christine Chitnis (December 28, 2009 at 10:56 AM)  

my dear nina...I would be honored to have our pictures featured on your lovely blog. and thank you everyone for your comments!!

Carrie S. (December 28, 2009 at 12:11 PM)  

So gorgeous, and what a beautiful moment to share after two years of marriage. How wonderful to be able to reflect on the union you've created so far!

My husband and I tell each other all the time that we choose to be with each other. In so many ways, I think every day that you're married is a choice. Every day we choose to stay. We choose to love. We choose each other.

cindi (December 28, 2009 at 1:00 PM)  

What an absolutely beautiful couple you make. Thank you for sharing the gorgeous pictures of your Hindu ceremony. Praying that you have at least another 88 years together.

Mrs. M (December 28, 2009 at 1:36 PM)  

what a beautiful thing, thank you so much for sharing. x

Sarah (December 28, 2009 at 3:29 PM)  

Love these pictures, but I love the words more. How lovely!

Mrs. Pickle (December 28, 2009 at 7:10 PM)  

Absolutely amazing! You look gorgeous and both of you look so happy- what a wonderful blessing!

Amanda (December 28, 2009 at 8:38 PM)  

that is so sweet and romantic!
the colors are *amazing*...so rich and vibrant!

lauren (December 29, 2009 at 9:45 AM)  

i am so thrilled that you two were able to do this!!! what an amazing experience and how touching...thank you for sharing!! :)
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olivia rae (December 29, 2009 at 9:56 AM)  

so gorgeous, wow.. these photos are amazing! such a touching post.

Rachel@oneprettything.com (December 29, 2009 at 11:10 PM)  

This is so sweet and so beautiful! Aww...

Alice (December 30, 2009 at 12:04 PM)  

your words make my heart stop! just beautiful! (as are the pictures - of course :-)

olive (December 31, 2009 at 9:28 AM)  

how truly wonderful & romantic.. you both look gorgeous. the colours are so vibrant, just what i need to cheer me up on a cold, English December day.... have a great new year... Ciao

jeanine (January 12, 2010 at 7:09 AM)  

this brought tears to my eyes. so, so, so beautiful.

onegoldensun (January 13, 2010 at 12:18 AM)  

What a most beautiful celebration! Stunning photos, so very special. Love it! Warmest blessings!

Joanie Hoffman (January 13, 2010 at 10:31 AM)  

wow, those are lovely pictures.
my best to both of you.
xox,
Joanie

m. heart (January 13, 2010 at 1:53 PM)  

Well I've just spent my lunch hour traveling to India vicariously through your vibrant photography and writing and have loved every minute of it, especially these images of your Hindu wedding ceremony. Visually stunning, and so poignant. It brought tears to my eyes, and I am only visiting here for the first time!

By the way, I am a Rhode Island native living in the hills of Western MA! I have very fond memories of coming of age in Providence and don't get back nearly enough.

Amanda (January 14, 2010 at 4:12 PM)  

This is absolutely lovely. You look amazing, and your husband looks amazing. Thank you for sharing this - it brought tears to my eyes.

India (February 4, 2010 at 3:43 PM)  

so beautiful! brilliant colors, lovely outfits, and charming writing :)

Christine Chitnis (March 4, 2010 at 12:52 PM)  

Thank you...for all of your beautiful comments. It was such a joy sharing this special moment with all of you!

Truly Smitten (February 25, 2011 at 1:07 AM)  

oh my....that last "I'd always choose you" line by your husband gave me goosebumps and tears to my eyes! I'd do anything to hear that from my husband....sigh...=*)

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